marriage

This is what we {women} do! It’s just a fact.

Sigh… i’m working on this. Here’s the deal… women (and don’t take it personally if you do not fit into this box. I’m not trying to clump people together due to the fact that I HATE extreme generalizations, but for the purpose of this blog, I will say things like “women”, “we”, etc. Forgive me.) do this. We have large opinions about everything. We may SAY we don’t care where we eat or what we do… but we do. We will go along with your plans but then later we will look like the weenie dog on the left.

I’m working on this… I really am. I believe that marriage should be a partnership. It shouldn’t be one purposing barking and the other going along.

Women- we must do better! We must bring our husbands into the “planning” stages of our lives and not just tell him what we are going to do.

Men- Step UP! Is your wife driving you nuts because she is constantly barking at you? Is she constantly wondering why you planned something for a date night that she has no interest in? GET INVOLVED! Don’t order her roses without knowing if that will make her day or make her mad. Don’t buy tickets to a movie and make a reservation at a restaurant you don’t know she likes or not. BE engaged.

And women…be nicer. For some reason we walk around thinking that men can read our minds and the truth is SO much further from that!

 

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